Dear Tita Witty

Dear Tita Witty,   Desparada na yata ako. I’ve been waiting for a boyfriend for a long time now. May matagal nang inaasar sa akin, ayoko naman siyang patulan nung una kasi di ko naman siya type. At saka asaran lang naman ‘yun.    About a month after it all started, he texted me asking if we could go out..’Di...

Dear Tita Witty,   I'm a med student in one of the big hospitals in Manila. I recently came out as gay to my blockmates and friends. I am attracted to one of my blockmates who is straight. Being blockmates, we spend all the time together in the hospital during our rotations in the different departments. Being medical students, we...

  Dear Tita Witty,   I’m 22 and I’ve never had a boyfriend. I’m a fresh grad and have been working at my first job for three months now. Syempre pag bago ka sa office, people would ask if you’re in a relationship. I say no at NBSB ako, and they ask why. How do I answer them when I...

Dear Tita Witty, I’m the only girl in this alternative band. I find myself being attracted to our guitarist, kasi naman sobrang talented! We’ve been getting to know each other better because of rehearsals. We would also text and talk about music and the band and eventually time would pass without us noticing it. Pero may girlfriend siya, Tita. I...

Note: This article was first published in The Philippine Star Supreme on June 20, 2015   Dear Tita Witty, I am a manager of a BPO company and I have a huge crush on one of my staff who’s eight years younger. Sobrang bango at cute kasi, Tita! Sometimes, I can’t help myself from flirting at hinahanap ko na talaga siya pagdating ko...

Note: This article was first published in The Philippine Star Supreme on July 18, 2015 Dear Tita Witty, My first boyfriend and I got back together after three years of being separated. I thought love would be lovelier the second time around, but it clearly wasn’t the case. He’s been cold and distant. Lumala pa nung kinailangan niyang mag OJT...

Note: This article was first published in The Philippine Star Supreme on August 8, 2015 Dear Tita Witty, I’ve been friends with this guy for 10 years now. We have a lot in common: our love for God, for music (we sing in the choir), for arts, and nature trips. We also both love Sarah G. and Toni G. movies,...

Note: This article was first published in The Philippine Star Supreme in August 29, 2015   Dear Tita Witty, Please call me Sally. I am 23 years old and still an NBSB (as you get older, you get more ashamed of this fact. LOL) After a gazillon times of viewing his fb profile, I finally had the courage to unfriend...

Note: This article was first published in The Philippine Star Supreme on August 15, 2016 Dear Tita Witty, I have this ka-MU – my professor. At first I was like “Kebs lang ‘di naman siya gwapo.”  He would always ask me to come to the faculty room just to ask about my performance in class, if I studied my lessons...

Note: This article was first published in The Philippine Star Supreme on August 1, 2015 Dear Tita Witty, I have this crush on someone whom I met at a vintage store opening; he is one of the artists who make the merchandise for the store. I just really feel we’d hit it off because it seems we have the same...

Note: This article was first published in The Philippine Star on July 11, 2015. Dear Tita Witty,   Gusto ko lang mag-share ng katangahan. I’m pretty sure I’m not the only one in this situation.   I’m in love with my best friend.  Siya ang nasasabihan ko ng lahat ng bagay tungkol sa akin. I tell him everything – if...

First published on Philippine Star Supreme April 16, 2016 Dear Tita Witty, I'm in a long distance relationship with this guy I met in a dating app. He's a foreigner, and it's my first time to be in this kind of relationship so I have no clue what I got myself into. At first it was really just for curiosity's...

First published on Philippine Star Supreme on April 2, 2016 Dear Tita Witty, I was blockmates with this guy. He was touchy and needy and sweet when he wanted to be, and so was I, and we both seriously liked other people. I'm not even sure we really liked each other that much, but we had fun sometimes. Anyway. We...

First published on Philippine Star Supreme on February 20, 2016 Dear Tita Witty I have a barkada made up of four girls and three guys since high school. We’ve all graduated from college and we still hang out until the wee hours in the morning just chatting. Everyone’s close to each other and us girls are dropped off at our...